I asked a guy out and he said no, but then called 5 minutes later to say that we were on two different boats and that his focus has to be on school. Then went on to say that he wasn't looking for anyone special and that he didn't want things to change between us. And when he said no, he said it right away. So this is why I'm mainly confused. He said no without even thinking, so why call. Is he saying no to dating forever or just for right now?
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i can't answer for this guy, but I would say to stay around for a while, he might be up to it later on. In the meantime, try to get closer to him, make him think that you are so special, he can't even have an excuse not to go out with you.1