Let me explain.
I have a lot of social anxiety issues and I've been paranoid about this for a long time now.
4 months ago my cousin died and I felt sad. I felt that way because I'm I missed her. I still do really. My relationship was a long distance one.
Me and my girlfriend were doing amazingly I thought, but because I'm so quiet and paranoid I distance myself and tend not to speak much.
I'm surprised she felt with me for so long honestly. She was upset I didn't text or talk with her enough, which was true, I'm an idiot who never knows what to say. She said if that continued we would have to break up. I had never expected such a thing from her, I grew blind to my incompetence though i was trying to improve my communication skills. I got really sad and turned into a jerk. I though she was abandoning me. My thought prosses was "if I can't make you happy, if I can't satisfy you, then you deserve better than me" so I broke up with her. I was a jerk. She was giving me a chance. If I tried hard to get her forgiveness, to be her boyfriend again. Would she? If you were her, would you?
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I think I would, and I just want to add to the other responses. Long distance relationships are seriously hard. And with a lack of communication... I've felt that I wasn't cared about and it really hurts. Try to at least text her every day. It'll make her feel special and cared for.1