so i started talking to this guy a couple months ago but i never told my mom about him because i wanted to wait until i knew that i wanted to date him. I tpld my mom I was going over a friends house everytime I hung out with him in oreder to keep him a secret. We have had sex a couple times since we mey but it's not all about the sex because he always tells me how much he wants to date me and he has taken me out to eat and for ice cream a couple times. Last week i went to the ER because I thought i might have had a UTI or a yest infection. When the doctors asked if i was sexually active I told them I wasn't because my mom is super religious and she would kill me if she found out I was having sex. The next the day the doctors called my mom and told her I had chlamydia. The boy i was talking to had no idea he was infected and sincerely apologized to me. I'm not mad at him and i still want to see him. But my mom is mad that I didn't tell her about him and that i had sex with him and now she won't let me see him anymore. I now have to tell her everywhere I'm going and she has to talk to my friends parents otp to make sure im not sneaking off to see my boy. She told me she's ashamed to have me as a daughter and she never thought i would do anything like this. She's also making me go to church all the time even though i dont like her religion. How can i talk to my mom in a respectful way to try to get her to let me see him again because i really do like him and I've never liked a boy as much as i like him? Also how can i get her to trust me again and to give my boy a chance?
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you're underage! Uhm, I don't know, I'm pretty sure your mom is just looking out for you.
If you want her to trust you, you have to respect her decisions and show her that she's got nothing to worry about. But since you've already been going out and having sex, my suggestion would be to stop for a bit until she does (if ever) see that you're responsible and mature enough to make your own decisions :P2