To be honest if a woman i am interested in just wants to be friends, I get a bit pissed off about it, I don't get angry at her just the situation. in fact i just want to walk away and thats that. I don't have time to put my feelings on the back burner so that she can be happy just being friends while i want more.
I may be a dick for thinking this way, but for too long I have put my feelings on the back burner for just being friends.
I don't know if this is wrong of me but its the way i feel about these kind of situations.
Would like your views on this matter, from both genders. if a girl has been friends with a guy and she wants more and he doesn't and visa versa
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To be honest you should try to ask a girl who you are getting to know if they're are even seeking a relationship and if they say they're not too sure or whatever than move on and don't even bother. Look for someone who is actually seeking and be up front about it from the getgo so that you're not stuck in these situations.
I been there and it sucks putting so much time and afford to find out someone only wants to be friends, so I learned to simply be up front with girls and let them know that I am seeking a relationship and my intentions are to get to know them and see where it goes and I want to make sure they're intentions are the same. Most girls understood this and actually agreed when I would explain that I want to focus my time on one person and actually get to know them and decide if I want to be with them and I don't want all that time wasted because they're unsure about what they want.
But yeah in your situation you're not being a dick I've done the same thing plenty of times because a lot of girls just seem to enjoy the attention and don't actually want to commit and that's when you need to let them go and let them realize you're actually seeking commitment and if they're not than bye because you have enough friends.0