Say the guy you are dating talks fine when you are alone or one on one, but gets quiet when he is around your friends and hardly speaks? You know he is like this because he does not like a lot of people around, but is ok with it if you are happy. He is happy to sit there while all of you talk.
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I d be annoyed. Like I have to take care of his happiness and that he doesn't want to invest some time in my friends. I can understand if he is shy, but he could at least answer the questions of my friends and introduce himself.
A friend of mine had het boyfriend over and he came with us to eat pizza with a big random group of people for the birthday of someone. And he didn't even want to switch to English and just kept talking in german to his girlfriend without introducing himself or showing interest in the birthdaygirl. He made that end of the table really awkward.
I would prefer a guy who would just come into the group like: HI, I am... who are you (shaking hands) and then just tries to talk to some people. If he was just sitting there it wouldn't matter if he came with or stayed at home.0