My boyfriend said something disturbing. We were on the topic of having to buy condoms because we didn't have any left. And he said that if I ever get pregnant that I would be on my own. He said he would disappear and that he is serious. I didn't know how to react to it so I just laughed, but honestly it bothered me. I'm not planning on getting pregnant AT ALL, but just the fact that he said it in that way... I'm not fine with it. I don't know how to talk to him about this, but I need to. I'm 21 he is 28. We have been together 8 months now. I always knew he doesn't want to have kids, we were friends for almost a year before we start dating. He has been really great with me, but after that conversation... I simply don't know. How do I go about this?
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How do you go about this? Leave him.
Never stay with a man who boldly proclaims he has limited respect and loyalty to you. He basically said that he has no problem pumping his d*ck into your vagina and possibly losing control then cumming inside of you. However, if your vagina actually reminds him that it is a reproductive organ meant for PROCREATION, not the pleasure of his cock, then you are on your own to spend a lifetime on responsibility for a mistake he was partial for. What a piece of trash. You will always feel like a dummy and never forgive yourself for putting a child in the unfortunate situation of having a father like him if you end up getting pregnant.
Leave him now while you still can0