I dont have any bad experiences or trauma from childhood that cause this. i just find it very hard almost impossible to open up and get close to guys emotionally. i feel like if i do i will be vulnerable and i dont like the feeling. i can have casual relationships with guys and sleep with them but as soon as they show signs they want more im scared and not respond to it eventho i like them a lot too. more than one guy told me that i dont show affection and i seem like not interested but i am its just very hard for me to admit and show it. for example i can have sex with them no problem but i dread talking to them on the phone so whenever they call i just dun pick up and i dread going out for dinners too so whenever they ask me out i just find excuses not to go. am i normal should i see a psychologist?
Why am I afraid to get close to guys emotionally?
What Guys Said 2
guess u r not used being around wid guys? :)0
Your parents were never very affectionate with each other in front of you, were they?0
What Girls Said 1
It's just a defense mechanism.1
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