I'm 5'11, and I kind of refuse to date a guy who is shorter than me, or isn't tall enough so that I can wear heels without being taller than him.
I've been the tall person everywhere I go, and I'm tired of it. I want somebody to be taller than me for a change, I want to have to look up to speak to somebody, instead of always looking down. Is that so wrong of me?
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Yes, it's shallow, since you're putting a large focus on physical appearance, as opposed to personality, emotions, or the character of the person. With this being said, there isn't anything "bad" about being shallow: I'm shallow myself. I won't date a girl I REALLY (key word here), I repeat, REALLY don't find physically attractive. However, I would say maybe ten percent of the girls in my age group fall into this category, which means roughly 90 percent of the girls I see my age are physically adequate for me to date. I'm also open to dating older women.
As far as height goes, I LOVE tall girls! I'm 6'3 myself, so a girl around my height sounds sexy! Plus they seem to have a better waist-to-hip ratio. With this being said, I would date a girl who ranges from 4'11 to 6'5, because if they're extremely short or extremely tall, I put them in the "REALLY" unattractive range.
I'll give you kudos for dating guys shorter than you though! Most girls won't do it, regardless of how short they are themselves. You look very attractive and I would love to meet a girl your height and as pretty as you are.2