He is dating me and I am not his girlfriend?

He said last night that we are only dating. I responded that I only sleep with a man when I am in a committed monogamous relationship. He told me a month ago that he is only seeing me but, I had a friend look him up on match. com and his profile is active. What should I do? Just ignore it and date others and be cryptic like he is. His x wife was 13 years younger and I am only 4 years younger. He really looks older than me. I look 10 years younger.
please advise ------

  • should i pretend i don't know that he is still on match?
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  • should I just flirt with him and torture him to see. what he does?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Let go off him, why waist time with a guy you have to second guess?
    I dated a guy and he one day told me not to fall in love with him because he didn't see a future with me.. i mean what the heck who says something like that.. so i dumped his ass.. you know why? because i know i deserve better and i deserve someone to fall in love with ME and for me to fall in love WITH.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Active, how long was it since he was online? I don't know that much about match, but as far as I know, unless you deactivate it it will still be active, but it should show something like last online 1 month ago or something.

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  • how old is he then?

    is it bad 2 look much younger than him>

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  • None of the choices are good, just avoid him and find another man.

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  • Torture the dude. He sound like a scrub

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What Girls Said 3

  • I'd walk. Sorry, but I'm too old for games. He's not looking for commitment from you if he's still on there.

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  • You got your own answer there.

    --->What should I do? Just ignore it and date others and be cryptic like he is. His x wife was 13 years younger and I am only 4 years younger. He really looks older than me. I look 10 years younger.

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  • just flirt with him.

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