I've just started seeing this guy and all the other guys I have ever dated (except one) have always paid the first few dates if not beyond and I would get the tip or dessert somewhere else or popcorn at movies etc... but he paid the majority of our dates. This new guy... well we went out for coffee and I was first in line and ordered my coffee and he didn't step up to pay so I did - but I thought maybe he didn't see I was paying at first. He did pay for our movies but he's taking me for dinner tomorrow and I don't feel I need to pay for my portion - but wondering where he stands on it. I get the feeling he doesn't mind me paying... but a girl is courted and she can contribute in small ways.
What are your thoughts - should the guy pay mostly and the girl help out with tips or dessert or take turns paying?
- Yes - He should pay mostly28% (7)22% (5)25% (12)Vote
- No - Dutch20% (5)35% (8)27% (13)Vote
- Depends - she can pay at times and he pays other times52% (13)43% (10)48% (23)Vote
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You have a job? Pay for your own way. Equality and all that shit.4