My date kid's the very first time I meet her. Like I know eventually I would have to meet her kids in the future which I don't have a problem with. For the very first date I just wanted to be us and it doesn't seem like she wants to accommodate that. Should I just suck it up and go hang out with her and her kids even though it might be awkward? How do you guys feel about a situation like this?
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It is totally reasonable but not for your reasons. She should wait a few MONTHS to introduce you, for the sake of her children. They could get attached and It might not work out. Then they will end up feeling abandoned and powerless.
Explain that you totally accept her children but you want to protect them by waiting a bit until you build some bond between you.1
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