OK so I went out on a date.. a great ! date.. dinner, walked around a park then to this local pub. well we couldn't keep our hands off each other, went back to her place and one thing lead to another.. She even told me at the bar.. no sex tonight with a big smile on her face, I said OK how about a massage. She said OK! :) Well it turned into more then that. Yes we were both a little tipsy from drinking.. Here's the bad part though I heard from her the day after we were both laughing at some of the things from the night before. She went to her parents for the weekend and now I haven't heard from her since. Do you guys think she was like whoops didn't mean for that to happen so fast and now I must play hard to get to this guy and she is really embarrassed or does she disrespect me for letting this happen.. It was totally mutual.. We were all over each other and now nothing.. It doesn't make sense. Its been 4 days since any contact
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Ah, I've been in this situation before. I'm actually quite surprised that a guy is questioning first date sex...
I think that she's embarassed, thinks she moved too fast, and is worried what you might think of her. She probably just needs some time to think OR on the other hand she could just see it as a one night stand, and nothing serious. It depends on the type of girl she is, seeing as I don't know her, you'll have to make that judgement call yourself. But the fact that her friend deleted you as as friend of Facebook suggests that maybe the girls opinion wasn't too favorable of you.
Either way, you should at least make contact with her and see what's up. What's the worst that could happen? And if it turns out she's not interested, hey at least you got some good sex out of it.