So if your a guy and you saw these cuts from self harming on your girlfriend what would you do? Reactions? How would you feel about it and what exactly would you do?
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well I had a ex girlfriend that use to cut. when I first saw them I just hugged her and told her I am here for you and kissed her and always cuddled her and rubbed her back. it was one of my happiest relationships.
if the Scars where very new I would give the cuts the treatment that they need cleaning bandaging or taking to hospital if further treatment is needed.
I feel a lot of people do not understand self harm and mental illness, it is not for attention in the direct sense as its a way of feeling better for a while but the scars do show you need help.
Are you thinking about showing your BF? or is there a new guy you like and thinking about telling. remember that your still very young a guys do not develop emotionally until later and do not really understand it, heck you got 50 that do not understand it. if he ever leaves you because you self-harm then he would not be able to support you mentally and give you the emotional support that you need.
what's so bad in your life that you cut honey. I have read some of the other post the reason why it takes away the pain is that it realises certain chemicals that may you feel better in the short term.1