Is his behaviour too forward on our first date?

-He tried to kiss me (I gave him my cheek though :P )
-he rested his head on my lap (he was lying down lol)
-he squeezed me super tight lol when we hugged

Are these things just sweet or red flags lol?

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  • He's just being cute! <3
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  • "he rested his head on my lap" wowww already lol?
    Company of Wolves retold?

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    • I don't get that reference xD

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    • Wow! That's such a beautiful story! Lol I printscreened it all. You told it so well too haha
      And nope unfortunately lol, I was wearing a blue dress!! Dammit lol

    • God damn it... now I sound like a party pooper
      SORRRYYYYY but cheerio for ze mho anyhow... didn't mean to turn this way...

What Guys Said 9

  • Err, what happened to the Gag guy you were dating?

    Well it's like anything really. How well did you know him beforehand? Did it seem natural and feel right? I have no qualms being very intimate with new people if there's a kind of 'energetic merging'. But generally, if he's a good guy, he should be reading you and responding accordingly. If he can sense that you'll take a while to warm up (which is perfectly fine), he should be to judge to take it a bit slower. If he's just all over with you, and you're not comfortable with it, then you should definitely let him know. Generally, people who like invading boundaries match up karmically with people who have difficulty raising any.

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    • We're friends now :)
      And erm it must have seemed natural to him but it wasn't to me because I'm not used to dating or physical contact with males lol :P
      I've known him for a few months online but this was our first meeting

    • and you were flirting online? Did it go well aside from his wandering hands? :P As I say, don't be afraid to let him know if you're not comfortable and he's going too fast, that's the only thing I will say.

    • Well he was flirting with me lol, I'm not a natural flirt ;P
      And yes it did! We got on great, I'm just not sure if there is a romantic spark yet

  • He shouldn't laid his head on your lap
    maybe he shouldn't of squeeze you so tight with the hug
    his kiss on was so so you gave him your cheek but
    i would think he is little forward, i wouldn't be so forward
    for the first date.

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  • The only one I think is a little weird is laying his head in your lap on a first date. The others are normal.

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  • "-he rested his head on my lap (he was lying down lol)"<----- man... dat was soooooo cute <3

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  • He's into you. Stop being so paranoid!

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  • He's keen on you. But, I don't think that's a bad thing.

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  • Seems a little desperate but I'm sure he had no ill intentions.

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  • He's trying to be cute and to show you that he's interested in you.

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  • A kiss and a hard hug are hardly "red flags". Maybe he is just smitten with you. Believe in love at first sight?

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What Girls Said 7

  • It depends on the context and signals you are sending people but I have made out full force on a first date

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    • Lol I was really shy and reserved xD

    • Then it might have been too much for you , if something makes you uncomfortable let people know.

  • It's normal... O. o

    None of those are weird behavior patterns.

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  • He was just being cute :)
    His behavior was totally normal!

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  • Its cute. But careful especially if u are JUST starting to know him.

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  • He's just being cute.

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  • It would be too much to me.

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  • Is it Robert whom this date was with? :p

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    • Who lol?

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    • Oh maybe you're right lol
      He'll be disappointed ;)

    • I think he is trying to get your panties off by wooing you. My advice? Get over him. I did message you by the way.

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