Today I went on a first date with this girl (coffee, 1 hour, she had to go to work) and I think it went well, no awkard silences and she was laughing moat of the time and I got her to talk about herself a lot. Right before the date was over I asked if she wanted to do something next week and she said maybe, since she's really busy like me (which I think is true) and she got all excited when I mentioned hiking, but we never actually planned anything and decided to play it by ear. The thing is though she takes forever to reply back to my texts (it's the evening and she hasn't texted me back since this morning after our date when I said I had a good time and talk soon) and it makes me wonder if she's actually interested or not. She did the same thing before planning our first date (didn't reply back until 2 days later and apologized saying she was busy) She's really hot and cold and it's pretty annoying bc I like her and this makes it difficult to actually get to know her.
I'm confused about this girl, what are your thoughts? Is she interested or not?
What Girls Said 2
She might actually be busy so you can't blame her but nobody is that busy. She can send a text. And I think you should ask her straight away if your annoying her or if it is too much so that you know what the real deal is. You have to talk to her first before planning anything else and see if she is really interested.0
What Guys Said 2
You shouldn't worry. Like you said she has a busy life so naturally she'd have to prioritize the things in her life even if she does take WHILE to respond. Plus it hasn't been a full day since she's last responded to you so just be PATIENT. It seems like she's interested in you and you seem interested in her so just chill. But don't "play it by ear". Lead her and actively make plans. Find out when she's free and go hiking.0
Your putting too much importance on how long she takes to reply, don't over think it... sounds alright mate0
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