I ask myself this a lot and my friends are starting to question too. I haven't had a girlfriend in two years and the relationship I had two years ago only lasted about two weeks and I learned about a month later that she only dated me because she felt bad for me. Anyway, I'm only 5'7 which is kinda short but not really, I'm a little awkward, but awkwardly funny. I haven't worked out a day in my life so I'm really skinny (I plan to work out later this summer). I wear pretty fashionable clothes, and I've been called "cute" before or I've been called a "7.5" in rating. I don't know what it is so that's why I came to GAG. Please help?
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First of all, you are not ugly at all ( no homo).
You say you're a bit awkward, I think you mean that you don't have that much experience with girls and don't really know how to handle them, which is okay. You will learn a lot anyway as you get older, I was the same when i was 16, I was 5'6 then, 1 inch shorter than you, I'm 6'3 now, and there was a 5'9 girl who had a HUGE crush on me. ( It didn't work out because I was too immature and too inexperienced to read the signs ) I was skinny too, I'd recommend you find a suitable diet that allows you to gain weight, working out is a reasonable idea too, but do not overdo it, I used to work out a lot at 16, but I've grown so much , and my body type has turned out to be naturally muscular, so I don't work out but eat well, it would also become too much for my build. And you're probably still in high school : Dating depends on your popularity rank while still in this artificial high school setting, you can't date any girl you find attractive, this will get A LOT easier once you're out of there, trust me, also you will get to know so many new girls afterwards. Your body will change and so will your self-confidence. both will get better ;) Hope it's helped0