To make a long story short, after the thrill of the chase is gone, guys drop me like a hot potato! How is one ever supposed to get into a relationship if the guy gets rid of her if she shows the slightest amount of interest? I'm not talking about the smothering, spend-every-waking-moment-of-our-lives-together level of interest, but the "You seem cool, I want to get to know you better" kind. I can never seem to get to that point. I'm always stuck in the "he has to like you way more than you like him" part, which is stupid.
What do I do?
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The info is unclear. So I am going to assume some things based on the word "chase". I might be totally wrong here but I feel I should express this.
My ex crush always wanted to be chased. She basically played games with them. Yes the attraction level became higher. She became like a goddess to guys. But when the chase was over she became a regular girl.
What she did wrong was not let the guy meet the real her from the start. She has a wonderful personality but it is overshadowed by her games.
Once again, I might be totally wrong here.0