I have been seeing a girl from a long distance (6 hour drive) for the past few months. Just dates - not a relationship. Even though we have already slept together in a hotel, she has not invited me to stay at her place when I come to see her from afar. It's an expensive city and this means that I'm having to shell out an additional $200 every time I see her. She lives alone. I would never ask her to stay - seems too strange to ask. I can't imagine a girl coming to see me and expecting her to stay at a hotel. I'm curious of what your take is on the situation.
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I think it's very unfair that you be working out all the cash to travel, if she isn't happy with you staying -and that's fine, that's her choice and her home (Personally I'd invite you if even to stay in the spare room or on the sofa) but I would offer to pay half the costs of travel and hotel. You're only going there to see her so it's only fair I feel.1