If a guy that likes you asks you out, and you say no (in a nice and respectful way) because you don't feel the same way, does that mean you're judging him? Guys, would you feel like the girl was judging you?
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In all honesty, it is in our nature to judge someone the moment we meet them. As shallow as we are, we always get attracted to someone based on looks first... then personality comes afterwards.
People who say that they find personality first before looks is when I call out the bs card.
But the way you acted is fine. If you aren't interested then it's always good to be truthful about it.2