I've been talking to this girl since November very casually. We haven't actually been boyfriend and girlfriend we talk a lot and we have slept together several times. Now she indicated to me and we both kinda greed that our relationship would mostly just be friends with benefits type deal although within the last month or so I have developed feelings for her as we have been getting a tad closer. Now we had plans on Saturday and I was gonna take her on a picnic at this national park we had, she cancelled on me the morning of saying she had to go out with her parents. She messaged me later that day saying she'd be done by 9 and that she still wanted to see me, when I asked her what she wanted to do she said "i'm not really in the mood for fooling around or anything so just like coffee" I felt kinda offenced by her saying that as she's implying that all I want is sex even though as of late we've really been sort of more than that and have opened up a bit more. Now she is the one who usually insitgates all the sex talk and she's always talking about sex to me. I haven't texted her since then and she hasn't messaged me eihter, so do I have a right to feel offended by her implying that all i want is sex?
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Nah I wouldn't be offended. She wasn't implying that all you want is sex. She probably said it because when people want to see someone at 9 o'clock you are not usually just going to hang out. It sounds like a booty call otherwise, and she probably didn't want you to think that's what you were possibly going to do.3