If this was the 1910s-1950s when women had little rights and little to no opportunities to independently make a source of income for themselvses while men were pretty much expected to pamper and baby women, then I would have agree with this. Now that women are now finally given far more job opportunities and all sorts, then I disagree with it for today's era and could careless of what a very few self-entitled, proclaimed "strong and independent" women would say about it. If they expect me to pay every single thing for them while they have a job to support themselves, then don't expect me to be happy being in a relationship with you or expect that the relationship will last anywhere near long.
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Disagree. While chivalry will always be appreciated, men deserve to be treated nicely, too. I'm happy to treat my guy every other time we go out or split the bill if it was an expensive activity/dinner. If he insists on paying, I'll let him because I know he'll feel great about it, and because it does feel good to be looked after.
For you ladies who truly believe the guy has to pay EVERY time, think of it this way: you treating him occasionally means a better chance of him getting you presents since he won't be broke from always paying for both of you, lol. ;) But, more importantly, don't you want to treat your guy well and make him feel appreciated, rather than expecting him to pay for literally everything and then getting offended when he eventually complains about it?2