Because i think being attracted to someone and respecting someone are 2 different things. It's just how i've observed life, reality for a long time now, a woman has to be BOTH attracted to and respect a guy in order to view/see him in a sexual way, or just as boyfriend material, a potential boyfriend.
But in order for a man (man as in human male) to see/view a woman as girlfriend material, he just has to be attracted to her, thats all.
Because i generally always hear of debates, topics, discussions as to what causes women to dump men, they often say it is because the woman lost respect for him as a man, sure there are cases in which she just lost attraction for him.
Like it's basically the woman has to look up to the guy, i'm not saying about his height about him being taller. They always talk about or mention that women don't want to be like a mother or big-sister to the guy, so in a nutshell, the long and short of it, is the guy, man supposed to be like a father or big-brother to his girlfriend?
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i do not think men dont have to respect women they are in relationships with. this would only be true of men who simply dont respect women period so it'd never occur to them... these guys are not relationship material.
respect is the most important thing it goes both ways. id never be attracted to a guy who did not respect me and have respect for me. in a relationship we should both look to each other. not up or down but eye to eye. thats how mine go anyhow.2