So I'm not exactly dating this guy but we are talking. The thing is he has a 7 month old and I have never been with a guy who has had a child. So here's the thing and I feel so weird saying this but sometimes he will send me pictures of his baby and looking at his child... I have this very weird feeling. Like I'm almost grossed out. I feel absolutely terrible about how I feel when I see pics of his kid. It's the strangest feeling and I have no clue whatsoever why I feel this way? why do I have such a negative reaction when I see his child. I really don't understand what I'm feeling and am not sure if this is normal. I've been digging deep within my brain trying to find an explanation but I can't. Has anyone ever felt this way, is it normal?
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You could be grossed out because you don't see him as a potential father for your own kids and/or because you don't see yourself wanting to be a stand-in with the child when he has the child around. It just sounds like you aren't ready for that life. You're looking for fault with the child to talk you out of being with the father.3