Like oh that sucks he's a sweet guy. Too bad I don't find him attractive😢. Or do you just laugh and be like wow really he thought I would date him what a loser 😝 be honest I won't judge you.
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I would never think the latter. Ever. There have (shamefully enough) been times I've known a man who I was not attracted to but he was interested and I really, really tried to be interested because he was great. If there's no attraction it's impossible to have a relationship. NOTE: When I say attraction, I mean more of a general blanket statement of chemistry and intrigue. If there are no sparks or anything, it isn't going to go anywhere. I've been 'attracted' to physically unattractive men by social standards, but the chemistry and all made me find him wildly attractive. So there's more to it than just the textbook 'pretty'.0