So my boyfriend wants to kiss me but I really don't want to. We've been dating for two weeks and for some damn reason he thinks now is the perfect time to kiss me. He said he's getting his kiss tomorrow and I'm scared. I don't know how to and I'm really not ready. And I do like him a lot but it's just when I get really close to him all I see is his facial hair and this weird little orange spot on his tooth and I get grossed out XD I mean he's cute and all but seriously I just don't think I want to kiss him just yet. I want to save my first kiss so that it's just right and perfect. I already told him repeatedly that I don't think I'm ready and he keeps saying it'll be fine. What should I do?
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What the hell?
1) He doesn't control the PARTNERship. It's a two way street. Your wants matter too. He sounds domineering. It might not have come across that way to you though---I didn't see what happened.
2) Your feelings matter. You're not ready. He should, as your boyfriend, understand that. What is he going to do next--pressure for sex?
You're not ready, you're not ready. Period. Say not.0