I am waiting for the right girl (whatever that may be). I have never had a girlfriend and I am nineteen years old. I have only kissed two girls before, and am waiting until marriage to have sex. I have really high standards, that is what other people say, and have tried with a handful of women but it seems like it never works out or they are not interested. Am I just aiming too high? I feel like I struggle more than every other person with girls, and it makes me want to not hold out because I have waited for a long time.
I feel like I am a well rounded kid; I try my best in school, try to be nice, I like to have fun with friends, go to church almost every Sunday, have good values and morals, and I am involved in a lot of clubs/ activities.
I just need some advice on how I should go about pursuing girls/ what kind of girls I should pursue I guess.
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Your problem is that you are boring. at least sound very boring. Yeah it important to do well in life, work, study and it's nice if church and your family are important to you. But all that sounds boring. Do you have passions? Dreams or hopes? You hust try to live a great life but are you truly enjoying it? And I'm not saying you should get wasted or try to drugs. No, but do things you truly want yourself. And develope more interesting personality.
And if you are picky, too bad. It's your problem. You will struggle finding someone. You are young though. Just focus on finding a girl with same interests, religion, family etc.0