I have a 2007 335XI coupe and it's lowered. So she did tell me that she scratched the door a little bit and send me pictures and it wasn't that big of a deal so i told her it was ok. When i got it back from her, my whole front end was scratchd under the car and and also she told me it was dripping oil so i was like for how long? she said 3 days, then i said "ummm please tell me you did not drive it for 3 days", and she was like "yeah i did why?" At this point i lost it and said some rude things to her and explained to her with anger why you should not drive a car when it's dripping a lot of oil.
I made her cry and i wans't too happy about that and also about the nasty things i said to her. Now she is scared to talk to me cause when i was mad i walked closer to her and she was like "please don't hit". I would never ever hit a girl and I don't know why she thinks that.
What can i do now? She agreed to pay the damages but I don't know, i kinda lost my love for her but at the same time i still care about her, it;s hard to express. I don't know what would you do? OH AND also when she was scared about the hiting thing could she of been abused in her life?
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She agreed to pay the damages, so you need to cool your fuckin' jets. If you break up with her over this then you need some serious counselling.
You didn't lose your love for her, you're just angry at the situation right now. Take a couple hours / days, stew through your emotions, and then calmly talk with her and explain to her with a level-head why it upset you.0