She is your sister, so there shouldn't be an issue. But you are a guy and I'm cool dressing half naked around my sister but I probably wouldn't do that if I had a brother.
Talk to her, she loves you, and she will most likely try to make you happy. But just know that I'm only referring to talking to her about clothes she wears when you two are in the house, not when she goes out. When she goes out she dresses like she pleases. But I can see how you wouldn't want her half naked if you think it's indecent and if she's around you.
If you feel like she dressed in a way which attracts bad male attention then tell her so, but respectfully. Not all guys think a short hemline or a little cleavage=easy bang. So maybe ask that question (with examples of what your sister's clothes look like) I say this because your male friends may have liked her for a while.0 0 0 2I agree with the other comments that you can't dictate your sister what to wear, but I also think you have every right to tell her how it makes you feel. And you can kindly ask her to tune it down a bit. But if you do so, there may be a risk that she does quite the opposite, because frankly she sounds a bit immature for her age. Walking around topless with a 17-year old guy in the house, even if it's your brother, I don't know...
0 0 0 2You can't really dictate to your sister what she can and can't wear. If you really think it's an issue, then you can talk to her about it but you should realise beforehand that you're the one in the wrong by bringing it up. If dressing that way makes her happy, then you should just support her in it. You have no right to tell your sister to dress a different way.
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If she were my sister, I would tell her straight up, dress appropriately. I haven't had to ever tell my sister this before, but I would if it came to that. You can still tell your sister how you feel; however, she is legally an adult and as such is entitled to (just as when she wasn't an adult) her own choice of clothing.
0 0 0 0Sometimes one has to tolerate such things. My elder sister (2 years elder) doesn't care and wears short & revealing clothes. Had she been not my sister, I would have certainly had more penetrating look.
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2 12You won't change her.
But as a woman she will get no respect.
She will only get men that want to fuck her and nothing else.0 2 2 1I don't know why the down vote on this because it is very true.
It is. But then again I never take downvotes here seriously cause some people do it for the hell of it.
I know a lot of guys go for the girls that dress in very revealing ways when they just want to have some fun and go for girls that dress more covered up when they want a girl to get into a meaningful relationship with.
It is her choice how she wants to dress. You may not agree with it but you can't stop her. She is 19.
2 0 0 0Nothing you really can do. She's gonna do what she wants to do. Check and mate.
1 0 0 0she's 19 she's an adult so she can wear wotever she wants 8)
1 0 0 1It is her choice how she dresses
1 0 0 0Its your job to kick people's asses and look threatening if guys think that they can check her out
0 0 1 3*looks at dislikes* lol guess you think nobody can stop your wandering eyes
Just tell her that it makes you uncomfortable and hope that convinces her to stop but realize that she has every right to keep doing it if she wants to, your discomfort is very reasonable but it is your problem not hers.
1 0 0 0Your sister will soon be shagging all your friends. Sorry dude
0 1 1 0nothing much you can do. she's an adult and has choose to dress like a slut.
I called your sister an insulting name. I think that is worth you blocking me.0 1 1 0I have the same issue with my sister. I told her to wear appropriate dress but she doesn't care. Sometimes she even walks nude from her room to washroom and back, knowing my presence.
0 0 0 0Tell her you want to see her naked
0 0 0 0Sometimes I think it's passive/aggressive... attraction is power... and it's power that a brother won't / can't reciprocate... Sometimes it's a safe way for a girl to show-off; think of the difference in attention between being 13 and 15+... way too young emotionally to deal with it.
At 19, I would hope that your sister could find healthier outlets for her sexuality and understand this (American) clothing boundaries... I know a Danish woman who tells me that nudity within a family is hardly given a thought; but to me it's unnecessary... If I were raised there, maybe I'd think differently.0 0 0 0As siblings, you should be able to just tell her to stop. Whether she decides to listen or not is out of your control.
0 3 1 0Hey there
First off post pictures lol jk , just be honest with her sounds like she has no shame she is happy with her body and loves showing it off just tell her not to do it around you and your friends i really don't see the big deal..
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