I self harmed a year ago should I tell my gf?

I cut from my wrist to my elbow should I tell her that I did it bc I'm scared she will dump me what should I do?

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I told her and she said " why the fuck would u do this to your self" then she pushed me on the ground and hit every one of my scars and Brock up with me

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Most Helpful Girl

  • if you two are intimate and close, its better to tell her before she sees it and freaks out because she didn't know. as an ex self harmer i can say its better to sit them down and tell them before they see it themselves without knowing. if she dosent understand dumps you, she wasn't worth your time anyways...

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What Girls Said 2

  • if she really loves u she won't leave. she will question u and u have to be ready for that. u also need to assure her that it won't happen again.

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  • be truthful as long as u tell her the truth she shouldn't dump u.

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What Guys Said 2

  • no don`t tell her you are afraid of being dumped

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  • Just don't mention it.

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