Okay for starters, this happened to me a handful of times already and this time with somebody I thought it wouldn't. Only because of the feelings I had, they were such strong and intense feelings, I mean the connection was instant and deep and this guy & I fell for eachother HARD. I thought about a future with this guy, marriage etc and neither of us were expecting this to happen. I know he fell for me because he was thinking about a future with me too, he would tell me how happy I made him and I would always catch him just staring at me sometimes in a way of admiration and joy. We would laugh at everything and we were so comfortable & honest with eachother & suddenly... my interest started diminishing for NO reason at all! He hasn't done anything in fact, he's been SO great to me. This person is absoloutly everything I wanted & messed it up with my problems. I don't know why this happened or what my issues are & I can't seem to figure it out, I have tried so many times before. I would appreciate any objective advice or from people that have dealt with the same things. Am I afraid of commitment? Am I afraid of getting hurt? Am I just fearful? What the hell is my problem? What am I running away from? I ended it quickly before things went deeper. I told him to give me time & I wanted to be friends for right now at the very least while I figure this out for myself, it sucks.
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This same exact thing happened to me. I was seeing this guy. He fell for me super fast. I was right there with him until like 4 months in. The guy was the sweetest. Did everything for me without me asking. We were extremely comfortable with eachother as well. But then, my feelings for him disappeared. Its almost like it happened overnight. Everything I felt for him was just gone. He is my best friend now and even though I know he is in love with me, he respects that I simply don't feel that way toward him. It sucks because he was everything I could have ever wanted. I think it was because him and I had so many similarities that it made it kind of boring. There was no excitement.0