Hey guys and girls,
I had a few dates with a nice guy and it seems to be going in a good direction. He is a nice guy and a gentlemen. He is intelligent, nice to talk to, ambitious and hard working and he has the same cultural background as me. It would be a good match. But on the other hand, I simply haven't developed any feelings for him. On a rational level I see all his advantages, but I am not in love with him. What should I do now? I have a few options:
A) Simply entering a commited relationship with him and hoping that feelings will come.
B) Taking it real slow, getting to know him and deciding what to do in a few months.
C) Cutting down on contact, getting rid of him and waiting for a man I love.
I am really frustrated and don't know how to go on with this issue. What do you guys think?
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Being in love is nothing when you decide for a long term commitment, possibly marriage. Love eventually fades away, even if it's really strong. So, if you think you can stand living with him for the rest of your life, if you think you can trust him with something noone else but your committed partner can provide just commit to him. Movies have injected the idea of love and marriage is supposed to coexist when it is neither practical nor better in any way. Just get over it, think about all the "love"s you've had in your life and how they'd faded away.1