Girls, why try anymore. I take girls out, I treat them right, I'm a gentleman. I don't rush into sexual things. I do to use women. I pay for the dates. I buy flowers and I show I care. I genuinely try to be the best guy I can and women always say, "looks don't matter" but that's bullshit. I've tried hard for so long. It's just over and over and over and over I put in so much time and effort for them to move on or just avoid talking to me. I don't do anything wrong. They just stop caring. I am the "perfect guy" personality wise, so clearly I'm just too messed up. Why try anymore. I just get hurt over and over and over again. Being told they're not ready and they dont want anything serious, yet they'll leave me and be with someone else a week later. What do I do
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There is no "perfect" guy because a) no one is perfect, and b) different girls like different things.
You wrote a lot about the things you do, but there's more to finding a relationship than "doing the 'right' things". The things you do aren't your personality. And there isn't a "'perfect guy' personality wise", since different women find different personalities attractive, and your personality won't necessarily mesh well with different women's personalities.
The fact that you think you have the "perfect guy personality" suggests that you think all women want the same thing and/or that you're kind of full of yourself. If you're trying so hard to be the "perfect guy", you may also come across as sort of disingenuous.
You're probably not ugly, since it sounds like you actually get dates. That suggests to me that at least some women find you attractive enough to go out with, and that means you're doing better than a lot of other people who don't get dates at all.
This might not be what you want to hear, but I think part of getting into a relationship is just luck. Sometimes you randomly meet someone that you just connect with, and other times you have to go on tons of dates before meeting someone you connect with.0