I feel like girls my age don't want to date a guy like me. I approach girls I'm friendly but I don't "make a move" or "have game". I know girls don't say that matters but unless a guy approaches them a specific way I think they assume you have no interest. I just try to get to know them and who they are and try to make connections in other ways. I'm not saying all girls do this but a lot do. I've noticed though as guys and girls grow older this changes. I'm the type a guy a girl would want to marry. I think this probably makes me seem safe or boring. I'm quiet but am affection and fun when with those close to me. I know I'd be good in a relationship and I'd be a good husband and father someday. But right now I think I'm coming off as the boring nice guy. I think this why nice guys finish last. So ladies what do think do not to date the guys like me right now. I completely understand. You probably want some fun guy who you can act crazy with I get it. Guys do feel you must act a certain way to get a girls attention? I'm not going to change who I am to date someone. I'm just going to be me. So should I just stop wasting my time and give up on dating until I'm at a point when I can get married? I think right now having female friends is enough. I don't think girls my age want a guy like me yet. Let me know what you think.
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You're right about your thougths, but don't stop dating because they simply don't want to commit to you yet. On the contrary, try to date so that you can understand girls' behaviour better and read them better in the future. Think of it like training. I have no idea how to act een interested, let alone how to flirt, because i didn't think dating was so important in high-school. Don't become a guy who has no idea how to approach a girl.0