Not trying to let her down, but am I wrong?

I'm going to try to keep this simple; my girlfriend wanted to do a party today for her graduation, I told her I shouldn't go because I'm not feeling well.

***Other things that might be helpful to know:
-She had a graduation party for her family LAST WEEK that I DID go to.
-I told her that I'll see if I end up feeling better, and will try to show up later since I dont want to let her down.
-She seems to be trying to make me feel guilty with reponses like: "oh"

Am I wrong? Should I be going anyways even though I won't exactly be "in it"? I don't want her to be bummed out, I want her to have a great time without me.


Most Helpful Guy

  • u should go bro... she's yer gal...


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What Girls Said 1

  • that's so fucking annoying!! she shouldn't make you feel bad at all about that, you shouldn't have to go, the "oh" is the worst my ex girlfriend did it all the time!


What Guys Said 1

  • if you dont want to go then dont