I'm 20 years old a total Virgin never had a relationship longer then acouple weeks I'm painfully shy. In college where the women are supposedlying the"easiest" I force myself to ask at least one person out a year. So far no luck. All my highschool crushes rejected me or wouldn't give me a chance. I never whent to prom or to a single party. I've never done drugs or consumed alcohol. Im a certified computer security technician but I work at macdonadls to help pay for college becuase we have no tech industry where I live.
I've tried online dating and forevery 20 messages I send out i may get 1 back. And they never last even to the conversation level. I did meet one really nice girl online and I thought I loved her but she declared herself asexual broke up with me and dated someone else.
I have built my own higher gaming computer. Im a card carrying member of mensa working on my pilotsite liscnse love cats. But I can't find any girls who like me. The only ones who even try to "hit" on me are the trashy macdonadls people. Everyone I like I'm petrified with fear to ask or they already have someone or those that don't and I am brave enough to ask won't even give me a chance. I really am a nice guy. Sigh... thanks for the venting. Advice?
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I think you're getting way over yourself! Just relax! Stop dwelling on your insecurities! Stop moping around because you're a virgin. Guess what? I am turning 28 and i am still a virgin. Do you know what that says about me? Not that I am some loser that cannot score with the girls, that I am actually a very gifted person who has a strong will and will not succumb myself to be a slave of lust! The devil is real, and he is all deceit! He destroyed love, and with destroying love; he destroyed marriage! People don't fall in love any more! Everything is sex sex sex! Don't buy into it! Distance yourself from these ungodly people! What I am saying is stop looking! If you find some one; it would e out of love! And if not? What can I say? There are no more decent women in the world! They have all sold their souls!0