Me and guy began hanging out and at first he lead me on thinking that we were slowly transitioning into being in a relationship but as it turns out he says he isn't trying to be in one right now. I set him straight and said if were gonna be friends with benefits than there will be no more "lovey dovey" shit between us. After that, our relationship has definitley changed. We used to talk every single day, call eachother babe and make plans to hangout. Now we barely even talk! He replies to me like 7 hours later and talks at a minimum. I just texted him and said "You barely even respond to me anymore," and he hasn't replied back (2 hours ago) . I would like to keep having him as a friend because he is a really fun person to be around but I feel like our relationship is always gonna be weird and not the same without all of the lovey dovey stuff we used to do, and I refuse to do it again because I feel like if a guy doesn't belong to me why should I give him my love?
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Trying to get commitment from a guy is like trying to get sex from a girl. It takes some skill.
You have failed with this one. Don't worry about it. Just move on. Reflect on what you might do better. There's plenty more fish in the sea.1