I mean, they don't have to do anything for it, they don't have to try, they don't deserve it! What have they done to earn happiness, huh? NOTHING so, why do they deserve to be happy, but I don't? Why do they deserve attention but not me? They should be as broken and angry and miserable as I am, they don't deserve happiness!!! It's not fair! No matter how hard I try, no matter what I do, it never works!!! No one has ever been interested in me, hell, people in general don't even like me, well, screw those people then, they're animals anyway, humans! Why, why do they deserve happiness but I deserve to be sad? Why is it so damn impossible for me, who has tried everything to get a girlfriend, but they, that do nothing get laid all the time? I hate couples, it's not fair.
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Thing is... as we grow up, we learn that life isn't fair, or just. Courts are unfair and unjust, and so is dating.
The fact is, many of us have to work for everything we want. We have to fight and practice and learn and claw for what we have, and that's why when we earn it, it's so precious and enjoyed.
Society makes it worse, by largely lying to guys like you and me about how to interact with the opposite sex. It hurts us, by impeding good efforts, and making us feel like something is wrong with us.
Thing is, you're okay. You've just been lied to. But you can overcome it. You can learn game and charisma, and become a better man... you may have lost time. But it ain't over yet, and if you want to get up for another round, this is still a match you can win.
Read, and learn.