I've hungout with this guy twice already and both times I always ended up paying. First time we hungout we went to the movies and since he drove to where I live I didn't mind it because I knew he came to me so I was like whatever. Welllllll last night we hungout at his house and I drove over to his place, which by the way is about an hour away... after we watched movies at his house we decided we wanted to eat and we went to chiptole, as I was driving away towards there he says "oh shoot! my wallet!" and I said "it's fine, don't worry." and he said "are you sure?" i said "yes" so I ended up paying again LOL money isn't really an issue for me if im interested, which i am a lot. but i just wanted to see what y'all think like im not concerened but my friend was like omg!! he should pay! i dont really care because again, i like him a lot.. should i be concerened? or am i just overthinking this..
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Maybe he did forget. If you're interested like you say, then it shouldn't be a problem. I know plenty of these people on here putting him down wouldn't find anything wrong with your situation if it was him who asked this question. It seems to be a double standard for men/women when it comes to paying for dates. Women are supposed to be on their guard if they are paying to make sure they aren't being taken for a ride but if guys do that then he's accused of being "cheap" , not interested and "negative". None of these people on here are TRULY about equality so they think that its always the guy's job to pay.1