My boyfriend and I fight over self harm?

He punches walls to the point of holes and bloody knuckles. I cut, it barly even bleeds. He tells me I have to stop because I'm scaring my body and that if I don't, then he'll start. I tell him I'll stop cutting when he stops punching walls. To me, self harm is self harm. We fight constantly and so I guess my question is, is all self harm the same? Is it understandable why I feel like its ridiculous for him to ask me to stop if he won't?


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  • Honestly this is so unhealthy. The two of you are not only being destructive to yourselves but also to each other through your constant fighting. Why not go see a counselor together?

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  • this is really sad to hear, you both need to seek help and stop doing this because its destructive and will only end in heartbreak.

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  • You both need to stop what your doing.

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