I'm a guy who has a condition that acts like a weak form of alopecia and is confined to the scalp, however there is no treatment and my only option is to shave it all the way bald, it's just skin like pitbull etc. Now I'm only 19 and worry what girls my age will think of it, I'm not some looks don't matter person, they do, I have higher standards myself but I only want one in the end I'm not some player, so if you couldn't see yourself with a bald guy this young be honest and don't say yes to make me feel better. Anyway I'm told I pull it off well even to the point where girls I know tell me I pull it off so well they couldn't imagine me with hair and that I was a stud without (unfortunately these girls were already taken) I know hair isn't everything but I've just read and heard so many girls saying bald is 'ew, eck,' etc and they often say it's a dealbreaker for attraction and dating. And I've read so many stories of young bald guys who say women all flocked away afterwards and any girl under 30 who is attractive will not date you etc it just really has hit my confidence. So young women is having no hair at a young age a dealbreaker? Can a bald young guy still be overall attractive? Please be honest and resist feel good answers.
- What you read is true, bald is generally a turn off and a dealbreaker, I couldn't date a bald guy this youngVote A
- While I'm not going to hate it, I couldn't get past it this young, I'd hold out for a guy with hair at this ageVote B
- Bald isn't a favorite style for me, but I can find a young guy with no hair otherwise attractive easily, hair doesn't make or break a guys attractiveness, I would date a bald guyVote C
- It's honestly no problem a bald head can be attractive this youngVote D