Hey guys so this is probably isn't even a surprise to you guys.
I'm 28 this year. Asian guy. I'm short. I've never been in a relatinoship, never kissed or held hands with a girl. I think I'm a nice guy, in good shape, I have lots of friends and I have a good career, but girls just don't seem too interested in me. Where I live is mostly white and Asian girls. White girls are generally not interested, Asian girls here seem to mostly want white guys. Even most of my good looking Asian guy friends seem to have a lot of trouble dating let alone me. SOO many of Asian guy friends are single and virgins. I don't think its just us either.
What can I do? It really sucks when you hear about guys getting girls so easily etc, but seriously, to be an Asian guy you guys have no idea... it really sucks
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The last part was sad to read.. Don't blame yourself for being Asian. It's the majority of the girls where you live that are not smart enough to know that race shouldn't matter. However, I do think that there must be some who don't think like the rest. Have the courage to talk to someone who looks genuine and attractive to you. The worst thing that could happen is for her to say "no." And keep in mind that the not so beautiful like the rest can be more beautiful on the inside. Be patient and don't act desperate. Don't obsess over it, but do keep your eyes open. Don't lose chances.. And most important of all, like yourself. It is so important to feel worthy and have confidence. Not cocky, but feel like you can be worthy of being loved. And don't settle for someone you don't really like. I've also felt insecure because I don't know how to kiss, but I already told myself I will learn when I meet someone I enjoy being with that won't see it as bad. My mother met my father when she was about 27 and she got married two years later. She had never kissed someone, and he didn't have much experience either. However, she told me that didn't matter.. What matters are the feelings they still continue to have for each other. I'm sure you'll find love like this one day :)1