Women, would you do it? This has happened a few times with my friends and now it's happening to me. Someone likes a guy who has a kid, and you're scared that he wants you to be a part of that childs life, and you question how far the relationship could go.
Men with children, wouldn't you eventually expect her to be involved with your child?
This is one of many reasons why I avoid dating older men. However, it happened, he's 35, and he has a daughter. She's a little girl. He hasn't said anything yet, but we've been involved for a while. I can feel things getting a bit more serious and I'm thinking of cutting this off before any damage can be done and before I get too invested in this. I just turned 25, and I'm just really not the person who needs or wants to be playing mommy to someone else's little kids. He hasn't even said anything yet, but it's a looming fear. "I'd you to meet my daughter" are the words of my nightmares. Can not handle. I'm not mature enough for this shit.
Anyway, do you think it's wrong to continue with things, only to eventually tell him that I want no part in his daughters and I'd rather not spend any time with her? I can't imagine him accepting that if we did reach that point.
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well if it turns into anything serious then yeah its not right to want him and not his child because there is no way the guy is gonna put you before his daughter.
if both came to a mutual agreement its just dating for fun then no problem. the daughter doesn't need to be involved at all. only when it takes a turn for the serious.0