Basically a dude just told me he's not going to date me because of that.
I kind of found it offensive cuz it's kinda calling me potentially skanky and also relieving because that insecurity could have strangled a relationship.
How would you feel?
for the record on my case, the roomie is good looking according to some girls, we just don't see eachother as more then friends.
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I've been in that situation numerous times. If I had such a problem trusting my girlfriend not to bang her roommate, then that would either speak to issues with her or issues with me. That is, if I didn't feel that I could trust her, either she doesn't deserve my trust (in which case we shouldn't be together) or I am too insecure to trust her (in which case I shouldn't be dating anyone until I become more secure). Either way, you're better off without him.1