Around four months ago my friend had created another number to text my boyfriend to test and see if he would cheat on me. My boyfriend had no idea who my friend was and did not have my number, and my friend claimed to be a random girl that went to my boyfriends highschool a while back. He was extremely friendly and ended up asking to snapchat my friend, as my friend asked what his snapchat was, it was a completely different username than the one he uses with me. After confronting him about all of this, he repeatedly denied having another snapchat and he convinced me that it was simply a typo. I had found it in my heart to forgive him completely. Three months later, I brought it up again and asked him if he seriously had another snapchat and he finally owned up to it, he revealed to me that he had it for two weeks to try fishing for compliments from other girls. He claimed that he was always somewhat jealous that I had guys always wanting my attention and that he wanted the same. Ever since this had all happened, we have grown our faith in the Lord together immensely, everyone sees how much we have grown together, religiously, but in all different aspects as well. Yet I still had my doubts, I know his password to every single one of his social media accounts and just yesterday I logged onto his twitter account, I found three messages he sent to girls six months ago asking them for their snapchat, I realize that it was all in the past but it still gets to me. I know he has changed for the better and we have become religious now, but it still hurts me, he reassures me everyday that he would never do anything to break my trust, but im just not sure. Is this realtionship worht working on?
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I think you should forgive him this situation is petty and I could see if he cheated. Yes it's wrong for him to lie to you and talk to other girls but to be honest MOST men are like that even if they say they aren't , 9 times out of 10 they are. Everyone's different and I'm not telling you what to do but I don't see this as a serious issue but if you're feeling unsure about it try to discuss it with him and let him know how you feel and if you feel like the relationship isn't going anywhere then move on0