This is something I've seen a few times on here in the last couple of weeks. I'm hoping those people can weigh in on the topic here, and of course everyone else can answer. Is it because they think she is desperate? Do they think it's just inappropriate and not a woman's job to approach the man?
I see many more posts from guys who are perfectly fine with womem making the first move and asking them out, but those comments are always dotted with ones from guys saying they'd freak out or she must be desperate if she has to ask the guy out.
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Every guy is different and thinks differently, just like girls are. Some wouldn't mind that the girl approach them and would even love that but some others would.
Now some of the reasons why some guys feel uncomfortable when a girl asks them out:
1. Some guys would feel less manly since the girl was the one to come up to him.
2. Some guys will be intimidated because the girl coming on to him and asking him his number requires A LOT of courage and confidence, so many guys will feel way too intimidated.
3. Some others will think other things like; she might be a hoe, or she might be desperate. Or she probably did this with many other guys... etc
4. they may not be attracted to her.5