I'm starting to notice lots of guys come across as arrogant on dating sites or they act like they don't care. POF allows users to say yes no or maybe to people they might want to meet. If it's mutual yes both parties are notified. The guy messages me an initial hi and when I try to say hi and make conversation it's not much effort. Then they will say they looking for personality but don't try to get to find out. Why bother? I know they are messaging other people too but I also know guys don't get as many messages or responses as girls do so when one you are attracted to is responding why not make more of an effort? I don't know if I'm even asking a question lol or just venting. Comments are always welcomed lol
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online dating is a nightmare for guys.
This diagram (statistics from Okcupid) shows you how much messages men and women get in a month.
from ugliest woman to hottest one - and them from ugliest man to hottest man.
The 2 best looking women get 536 and 428 messages, the 2 best looking man get 38 and 12 messages...
Even the ugliest chick gets 11 messages... almost as much as the best looking guy. What a fucking joke.1