Biggest non-sexual turns ons:
A specific type of intelligence, interest in politics, government, psychology, sociology (social sciences basically) or philosophy
very strong liberal values
emotional maturity
compatible sense of humor/ very funny
atheist or at least agnostic or non-religious
vegetarian or vegan
Likes to have long, in-depth discussions on complex topics
Likes to talk in general
Love for or interest in traveling
Speaks different languages
Affectionate and warm
In touch with his emotions
Guys outside of my race
Tall guys
Curvy girls
Turn offs/deal breakers:
anti-feminists
conservatives
strong religious values (aside from maybe buddhism, and even then it could be a turn off)
Bad hygiene, including oral hygiene/bad teeth
No ambition or impressive plans for the future
Simple-minded, not very intelligent and/or not interested in whats happening in the world or education
Doesn't like long discussions or talking in general
Possessive, controlling, doesn't have a life of his/her own
Emotionally detached in a very stereotypical way for men
The list goes on. There are tons of non-sexual things I do and don't like.
Must: Be hygienic, have a good sense of humor, be kind and polite, be educated, have goals that they work hard to achieve, be understanding, know when to be mature and when to let loose, be a good son, brother (unless he's an only child) and friend, be proud to call me his girlfriend, he needs to be like a best friend as well as a boyfriend.
Bonus: He plays video games, plays board games like monopoly, wears snapbacks, can cook, doesn't drink alcohol (I know that's a lot to ask for so that's why no alcohol is a bonus not a deal breaker) give me piggyback rides and would push me on the swing, be random
Deal breaker: being arrogant, feeling self-intitled, being pretentious, violent/no control over their temper, and being disrespectful to anyone, doesn't respect my values and opinions (you don't have to agree just respect them)
Turn ons: if his jawline is more structured than my life. If he has a dream and his only wish is to achieve it.
INTELLIGENCE. If he's ambitious, and wants to make his parents proud. If he cares about his family and if they always come first, then it's pretty impressive to me ;).
If he's a basket ball player or plays an instrument.
Turn offs: if he quit school. If he doesn't care about his career. If he didn't go to uni. If he doesn't have a job. Practically, if he's uneducated :D
Also, if he's a football player (I hate footbal). If he swears a lot and is vulgar. If iI saw him spit on the ground (in public), it's a total turn off. If he talks verry loudly in public, or hets violent în almost any situation. He'll juust have to be able to control his temper.
And so on...
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Biggest non-sexual turn on
I think it's cute when a girl folds
her hands in front of her when she's
just standing around , i like black finger nail polish
I like girls who eat lot when if i take her on date
I like girls who write little poems and give them to me.
Biggest non-sexual turn off
A girl who lies about being pregnant
or had abortion to another guy just to
make me jealous
A girl with a sarcastic personality
A girl who would spend more time with
her male friends than with her boyfriend
has no time for a boyfriend while he sits
at home waiting for her to text or call him
Turn-Ons:
- a good sense of humor
- not easily offended
- not clingy or needy, but appreciates our time together
- intelligence (doesn't have to be extreme, but not vapid or dumb)
- has a circle of friends and a life besides just me
- good family
Turn-Offs:
- Smoker/Drug User/Heavy Drinker
- Depressed or emotionally unstable
- Has a lot of debt
- Comes from a messed up family (this can be gotten past with the right girl)
- Needy/clingy or completely apathetic (extremes always tend to be bad)
- Lacks integrity or respect for others.
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u Turn-ons: a feminine lady, she takes care of herself and pays attention to her appearance, intelligence, good sense of humor, likes to hold hands, is not high maintenance
Turn-offs: lack of hygiene, bad teeth, acne/acne scars, tomboys, unable to dress up and handle sophisticated situations
Deal breakers: she smokes, isn't a Christian, crude/vulgar behavior
Turn on : when a guy eats salad.. takes a lot of them and shoves it in his mouth. I find it cute.
Turn off: profanity
Must have: Respect for himself and others and morals.
Bonus: speaks more than two languages fluently.
Dealbreaker : smokes/ drinks and I'll manners.
Must : Be hygienic, ambitious/have goals that he will work hard to achieve, be understanding, know when to be mature and when to let loose
Bonus : Pay attention to the little details, have a good sense of humor, plays video games or board games, loves kids
Dealbreaker : No control over his temper, arrogance, doesn't respect anyone, never wants kids
Turn on: pays attention to detail; dresses well; able to initiate and hold an intelligent conversation; opens doors for me; has career ambition;
Turn-offs: arrogance; lazy; excessive video gamer; shorter than me; lack of pride in appearance
Must have: dominance, assertiveness. Intelligence.
Bonus: likes videogames, is tall.
Dealbreaker: being old-fashioned, expecting the guy to always take the initiative, either in dating or in the relationship. Being overtly religious.
Turn on : Kind , likes cats and dogs , have nice hair , have a sense of humor, have a sarcastic personality and when she plays with her hair
Turn offs : cocky and over emotional
Drug use.
Being a single mother.
Not being over her ex boyfriend and always complaining about him even though the relationship ended a while ago.
Turn on - masculinity
Must have- humor
Dealbreaker- eats like a pig
Must be Kind
Bonus if she plays video games
Deal Breaker doesn't like kids or animals
Turn off: smoking, bad hygiëne, acting like a male
Turn on: great personality, kindness, friendlyness, forgiving
dealbreaker: smoking, having kids
must have: empathy, kindness, nice face
bonus: nice body
Turn on: Intelligence, calmness, loyalty.
Turn off: Arrogance, over confidence, poor hygiene.
Aren't all turn on's sexual though
To me, to turn someone on... is to make them horny... which is sexual.. so this question makes no sense.
Being able and willing to give me a piggyback.
I like it when a woman crosses her legs.
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