It seems that women will come up with every reason to reject a man e. g. a man:
- reminds her of her ex
- is talking to her because she feels he has no one else to hit on.."oh come on, how desperate could he be"
- has crappy style.. "omgosh.. how can he wear nike shoes with an adidas hat"
- complimented her.. "yeh right.. I bet he says that to everyone.. like who doesn't have a cute smile"
She can come up with a million trivial reasons to reject a guy.
But.. but... when Mr model handsome man comes along.. or Mr Rich or Mr Famous..
She finds ANY excuse to want to be with him.
She'll be over the moon when he dates her..
.. only to find out later that he has plenty of other options..
She gets dropped, and whines "boo hoo hoo why do I only meet a-holes.. I wish a nice man would ask me out"..
And the cycle repeats..
Note: Not every woman is like this. I acknowledge that. But a large number are.. and this question targets those who are.
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Humanity is still physically stuck in the stone age. Yes, our bodies are lagging that far behind. So our instincts are very much intact.
Women are all about quantity, and they deep down KNOW men are physically stronger, so it has become an instinct for them to FEAR men that are not good enough. Why? To protect thmselves from him (rape)!
It's a competely obsolete instinct, but it's still there. Because volution hasn't gotten fully rid of it yet.
Hence they will naturally feel threatned by a not ideal guy, and try what they can to get away from it. Whereas a hot guy... well, he's the prime, and it's instinct to want him. He's strong, and got all the qualities her baby need to survive both as a kid and as an adult. Well, skills that would've mattered in the stone age at least.
Yes, it's that simple.
And instincts are not contious, so don't be surprised if many disagree with me XD
TL:DR women are picky, and up until recently (in therms of human development) physical strength matter more than personality (better alive with a strong douchebag, than dead with a weak nice guy). Evolution has still not "corrected" itself to that change, so instincts still make them look more for what mattered in the stone age, like strength and durability.
(the good thing about science is that it is supported by vidence, wether you like it or not)0