My boyfriend likes small boobs, but I don't have small boobs. I feel like he might find me unattractive sexually. HELP?

My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile, and I've known him for over a year and a half. I always knew he liked smaller boobs better, which I guess is alright with me, but last night he sent a picture of Miley Cyrus (who was topless), and he said her boobs were small but "cute" and they were out of place and kind of insulted them I guess you could say. It still made me feel like shit because I know he finds smaller boobs more attractive and I am far from "small". I feel like he might find me unattractive sexually. He never mentions anything about me thats bad, and whenever we do get a little sexual things seem to be normal. I just have this idea in my head that he might not like my body and it gets me really insecure. I just want to be sexually appealing to him. :(


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Who cares what your boyfriend prefers? If it was really that important, he wouldn't be with you. If he cares for you, I would think he would accept you as you are. Just like many women have accepted men with smaller than average penises.

    If he keeps doing that, I would send him a picture of a nice thick 7 inch cock (assuming he doesn't have it) and say something to the effect of "He has a really nice dick. It's a bit veiny and unappealing though" or some crap so he can be put in the same situation as you are.

    Any insecurity that you're feeling that is being caused by him (and vice versa) should be addressed immediately before it turns into resentment.

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    • Are you interested in wars lol. You also have pretences lol like guys have to approach and he has a body. I saw your previous questions. Of curse I have no pretence over size

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    • "If it was really that important, he wouldn't be with you."

      What he prefers does not matter if he's still with her. If he starts trying to get her to change her body, I would be concerned. He's with her... so whatever he's telling her should fall on deaf ears because she's gifted with what she has and shouldn't change it.

      What he's doing to her is to me disrespectful. If my guy didn't have a cock size that I liked, I wouldn't send him a picture about one that I would prefer. I'd accept it and say nothing unless if asked. It's about respect.

    • Your argument makes no sense because those two are in a relationship and I'm not in a relationship with any guy that I'm crushing on. Try again.

What Guys Said 8

  • You don't need to be a man's ideal, for him to love your body. I am sure your boyfriend does not have every single ideal body part you would prefer, but you still love him don't you? It is the same with men.

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  • If your boobs are natural then their size will be reduced as you lose more fat. A lot of women models are so thin that they can't have children. If you're not actual fat then don't try to lose the fat. Instead build up some muscle and get a more toned body. Your boobs will look a little smaller.

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  • You're probably fine, its a preference not a requirement.

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  • relax... he might overlook this detail :)

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  • LMAO we'll he's a weirdo then, I like small, medium, and big, most guys do. I would prefer normal sized boobs to really big ones though but I wouldn't hold it against a girl if she had really big boobs.

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  • Some guys do find smaller books more attractive but if u have been in a relationship with him for that long u will need to tell him how u feel about it and see where u stand

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  • Unless you have breast reduction surgery, you can't do anything about the size of your boobs. (And you should not, not in a million years, not have surgery to make this guy happy.

    I prefer small boobs and my ex-wife had 36D boobs. I was still very turned on by her because it's the whole package, not just one feature, that we respond to.

    When you get between the sheets, if you make him harder than Chinese arithmetic. . . you've got nothing to worry about.

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  • ok stop being a girl and relax he loves your body

    kinda weird he sent you a nude miley cyrus pic tho 0_o

    i'd be more concerned about that

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What Girls Said 3

  • Your boyfriend wouldn't be with you if he wasn't attracted to you. Sure, he may prefer smaller boobs, but that doesn't mean he can't like you. There isn't much you can do about the size of your chest anyway. I'm sure he likes you and finds you appealing for reasons others than your boobs, too.

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  • If he thought you were unattractive. He probably wouldn't be with you in the first place. I'm sure he does find you very attractive. So don't doubt yourself. :)

    Also if your that worried maybe ask him? Be completely honest with him about how your feeling.

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    • My boyfriend says I'm hot all the time. Though he's told me that I could lose some weight. Which doesn't hurt my feelings because it is true. Though I'm not losing the weight for him. Only for myself.

      So even if he says he likes small boobs I'm sure he's still crazy about your bodacious boobies.

  • ask yourself this,

    if he didn't find you attractive, would he be with you?

    stop complaining. Do you know how many girls cry and obessveily measure themselves to see if their boobs grow only to dissapointedly find their still a b cup and their boobs only enlarged due to their period..

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