My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile, and I've known him for over a year and a half. I always knew he liked smaller boobs better, which I guess is alright with me, but last night he sent a picture of Miley Cyrus (who was topless), and he said her boobs were small but "cute" and they were out of place and kind of insulted them I guess you could say. It still made me feel like shit because I know he finds smaller boobs more attractive and I am far from "small". I feel like he might find me unattractive sexually. He never mentions anything about me thats bad, and whenever we do get a little sexual things seem to be normal. I just have this idea in my head that he might not like my body and it gets me really insecure. I just want to be sexually appealing to him. :(
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Who cares what your boyfriend prefers? If it was really that important, he wouldn't be with you. If he cares for you, I would think he would accept you as you are. Just like many women have accepted men with smaller than average penises.
If he keeps doing that, I would send him a picture of a nice thick 7 inch cock (assuming he doesn't have it) and say something to the effect of "He has a really nice dick. It's a bit veiny and unappealing though" or some crap so he can be put in the same situation as you are.
Any insecurity that you're feeling that is being caused by him (and vice versa) should be addressed immediately before it turns into resentment.1
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