We have been dating for over 6 months, I love him but I know he's not the one. But I want to be with him. So I leave for a week trip to see my sister and he texts me the first day saying he kissed a girl. He didn't give any more details, and he keeps saying he screwed up and that he is sorry and that he wants to save our relationship. But I feel like he shot me in the gut, I feel like if he could do something like that with a full clear mind he would keep doing these types of things in the future. so what I'm asking is I need help knowing if this is one of those things o should forgive or if we need space and time or if I should just say we are over or what? Please help I keep breaking down and crying every night because my heart doesn't know what to do.
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What he did is never acceptable, however, Im not condoning his actions at all or supporting him, but the fact that he owned up to it without you finding out and asking about it makes me think that maybe it really was a mistake in his mind, and that he really does regret it. No one can be 100% positive on any of this, but from what you've said so far (and depending on how you feel towards him) I'd say try giving him another chance, and if he screws up again at all like that then you should definitely leave him.0